AFFIRMATIONS

I did my best with what I understood at the time.

I forgive and bless the past so I can live in the now and be fully present.

Whatever is showing up in my life right now is perfect to learn what I need to learn.

I don't have to remember the bad things to justify the divorce -- I will develop a better memory of the past.

I am grateful for who I am and what I have.

I will love and respect myself.

Being imperfect is being a complete human being.

I will remember humor and laughter, and develop the ability to laugh at myself.

I will give up guilt. What happened.....happened.

I will give up shame. There is nothing to hide.

I am not helpless. I will own my own power.

I will come from sufficiency, not scarcity.

I will look to see what I want and trust that. I will develop an attitude of gratitude and of letting go. I will become an impeccable listener. I will ask for what I want.

I will take time to care for myself, to have my well-being be a priority.

I will be there fully for my children.

I can live without a mate. I will know that I am enough. I can enjoy my own company.

I accept the responsibility for creating my future.

I will question the traditions and expectations that keep me stuck in the past.

I always have choices; my choices create my life.

I am not bound by past experiences. I am unfettered and capable of making constructive decisions as I move on.

I will move through the disappointment, by choosing to do so.

I will identify any unhealthy addictions and co-dependency issues.

I forgive myself and you and the broken vows. But before I can forgive others, I must feel and express the hurt.

I will learn all I can from this experience and in time I will release it and be free of it.